I have no crucial problems (some lags after undock for 10-15 seconds, more it Jita) using vmware workstation 16.1.2 build-17966106. 8Gb memory, 1Gb video memory. Videocard is NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1650. I did not experiment a lot with settings, just started bots with more memory allocated. Eve client may consume 5Gb memory in a spike, but later memory consumption reduced to 2.5-3Gb
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beta version of a bot will detect if eve client not responding every undock and wait longer. Check shared settings->error corrections